What you see when you wake up and look around is there because you’ve created it by your thoughts, words, decisions, and actions- or lack thereof. You are always creating your life. So, if you want to have everything you want and nothing you don’t- stop blaming the rain and start creating from it!
If you are living the same routine with little variation every morning, noon and night and nothing in your life is changing for the better, look inward to find what is holding you back. Is it fear of failure? Negative doubts? or Procrastination in thinking you have time yet to make the changes? Once you understand what negative thoughts and feelings are holding you back, you can begin to overpower them with the positivity to create!
This blog post –> Get Out Of My Vocabulary, is a great way to begin being aware of negative speaking and begin thinking positively.
AS THE WORLD CHANGES, WE CHANGE THE WORLD
People and events in our lives influence us, yes. But we also influence the people and events in our lives.
What did you do today to create what you want?
The moments of your life are fleeting! You are not going to live forever. Read that sentence again. Giving power to others’ negative points-of-view is a waste of your precious moments. Instead, make that call, write down the steps to get what you really want, research how to get that better job, better home, dream vacation. Now that’s time well spent!
HUMBLE YOURSELF
It takes real guts to stop blaming other people or circumstances and start stepping forward to your Dreamlife. What you focus on daily, becomes the building blocks of your Dreamlife. Time is running out and when it does, you don’t get to turn the hour-glass over.
YOU CAN’T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS
You don’t get to take credit for all the great things that go right in your life then blame other things/people for the yucky stuff. It’s you who is in control of your life. Choose Positivity Every Time. Grasp that concept and you will have cleared the path straight to your Dreamlife.
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This is a beautiful post, thank you. Taking what I call ‘Radical Responsibility’ for your life sounds like it is a huge burden, but it’s actually the opposite! As soon as you take full responsibility for your own Dreamlife (as you so eloquently put it) it is actually very freeing because you can no longer be throw around by perceived ups-and-downs of life. I really appreciate the reminder and so enthusiastically written. xxx
I’ve always said that you can never make people like you, trust you, or support you. All you can do is make yourself like able, trustworthy, and supportive so that others change. Be the change you want to see in the world is one of Gandhi’s greatest quotes and its one i live by.
Thank you again for another great blog. I can’t agree more with the advice!!
I really appreciate this post. I need to ask your opinion of this question that I’ve been trying to answer myself lately. If someone you care about, or even just people you are around all the time are stuck on negative thoughts, perspectives you don’t agree with or seem to be ignorant in their perspectives and can’t be open minded, should you take the time to get them to see the light or just focus on what you want and how you perceive things and let them stay stubborn? I feel like at that point, I have given up. It’s not so much that I’m trying to change their ways or perspectives, I just wish people would be more open minded about things like I am.